Wednesday

The morning went smoothly, which was a nice change from recent chaos! H slept in until about 9am, but he seems to have caught up on enough sleep to be happy and cheerful. K got up earlier, and watched The Incredibles on her computer, but I am now enforcing the 2-hour limit on her computer and refusing to turn on the study computer until after 5pm, so after she ran out of time and was logged off, the kids have accepted that the rest of the day will be screen-free. So far they have actually been quite helpful: K filled the woodbox for me without being asked, and they took out the rubbish bins and emptied the recycling tub together. K wrote some notes for an imaginative game out in the garden and threaded beading line on them so she could hang them on trees. H made endless Duplo creations. Then both of them settled down in their room playing a long game, based on The Incredibles from what I could hear. I did laundry, rescued various rooms from total chaos, inventoried the deep-freeze, and made pumpkin soup for lunch as requested by both smalls.

After lunch, K starting writing again, this time Dr Seuss. She wrote “My teeth are gold, my hat is old, I have a bird I like to hold, my shoe is off, my foot is cold” and “One fish two fish red fish blue fish”, asking me for most of the spelling but writing the words she knew. Then she was able to read it back to herself. After that, she dressed H and took him outside to continue their game, except now he was her little sister. I did the washing up and more laundry, and discovered that I could whack thumbtacks into the front of the craft cupboard to fasten up the rainbow sheep we made yesterday (K commented that “it looks just like school”, heh), so at least they are no longer shedding underfoot. The kids did more collage, and kept playing together very happily – they were so engrossed in their games that they didn’t want me at all, so I finally got around to starting my recycled wristwarmers instead.

After some more farnarkling with the list (since it was payday today so I can do a normal shop instead of a smaller one), we headed out and did the shopping. Since it was after 5pm when we got home, I let the kids put the computer back on to watch Playschool. I am pleased with how well the detoxing is going, from the 4+ hrs of screentime a day we had slipped into over recent weeks. The two kids played together beautifully for most of the day and there was much less friction among us all. Which is good, because Mr Bat worked until 6pm so was home much later than usual – often a recipe for disaster, but today hardly an issue at all. We had ricepaper rolls for dinner and then attempted to Skype Grandmoogi before books and bed.

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Tuesday afternoon

We got in the car and realised that we were almost out of petrol. Since we don’t get paid til tomorrow I was already planning on doing a smaller shop than usual, and I wouldn’t be able to put petrol in and do the full shop, so I gave up on that idea til tomorrow. We went to Geeveston instead and posted my parcel, picked up a parcel, and dropped off the overdue items. When we got home, I declared the moratorium on screentime for the rest of the afternoon, so we made a new Plan, a habit which had fallen by the wayside when B was here. So far K has done some beading and made a bracelet, H has thrown beads on the floor (sigh), and they started out playing an elaborate game with dolls and teddies based on Labyrinth, but foolishly I distracted K just when H had finished dragging the entire collection of dolls and furries into the back yard. Dragged entire collection of dolls and furries back inside. Then K settled down to do some more cutting and pasting into her African scrapbook, so H decided he wanted to do some collage as well.

We had crossed a few things off our Plan by that point, so next up was baking, and of course sharing the bowl afterwards! We made pear and apple muffins from the half-eaten fruit which the children scattered all over the kitchen yesterday, then zucchini and feta muffins. Nom. K looked through recipe books for biscuits she liked the look of, but I ended up making (a rather bottom-heavy) date crumble slice instead. Things went a bit pear-shaped after that because H was just so tired, so I ended up putting a DVD on at his request in the hope that he would lie down in front of it and rest. He didn’t, so it all got a bit fraught. But he cheered up after dinner and went to bed without much argument. K had three or four chapters of The Long Winter then amused herself until Mr Bat was ready to come and sing songs.

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Tuesday morning

H got up with me at sparrow’s fart (well, actually it was about 7:30-8am, poor me *sniggers*). I was very grumpy with him because I had tried to get him to stay asleep for the preceding hour but every time I tried to move away from him he would demand booby. Aargh. I’m practicing my new mantra – “I don’t have to be angry every time I feel anger” – but it was too early in the morning for sustained success. We lit the fire and snuggled together in front of it for a while, then I brought in some more wood, made breakfast and coffee, and put Playschool on for him so he would leave me in peace to drink it… He was also playing with teddies and Duplo while watching. K slept in until after 9am, then she and H sat right in front of the fire building “a Huonville” out of blocks, lol. They helped by suggesting meals for the menu plan I was writing.

After a while, they joined me at the table, and K decided she wanted to cut the pictures out of an old travel guide to West Africa which I picked up at the tip shop on the weekend for this purpose. So I dismantled the spine for her (curse Lonely Planet and their extremely sturdy bookbinding!) and she cut out various pictures she liked and pasted them into a scrapbook. H wanted to do some drawing, which translated in practice to demanding that I draw him pictures of different animals. I checked our loans, renewed some, requested some more holds and generally tidied up our wishlist to reflect ongoing themes and discard some which the kids are no longer particularly interested in.

I made sure to ballast the two of them with as much almondy porridge as I could get down them, having finally learnt my lesson about shopping with melting-down kids! Since Playschool hadn’t lasted long (H kept coming out of the room and doing other stuff so it got turned off at some point and nobody noticed), I didn’t mind putting Labyrinth on for them so that I could finish my plan and lists, and find and wrap up beads for a friend’s blessingway, which have to be posted today to get there by the weekend. H still spends most of his DVD time coming in and out and occupying himself with other things. This morning, as well as the continual Duplo pottering, he asked me to write him a list of yummy things: strawberries, mandarins, pears, bananas, apples and sweet chilli sauce, LOL. K is watching, tho, so it will be screen-free time this afternoon, I think! ‘Bout time we had some of that… Plan and list are now finished, so I’m off to have a shower and get myself and H ready to go (K already is).

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Really stupidly long catch-up, the sequel

Urgh. That would be another week without updates. I hate it when that happens. Let me see…

Tuesday

We took B into the post office to cash her birthday postal order and write and send a thank you card to her grandmother, then to the bank to open her a new savings account, then went through both op shops, and all the way through the supermarket without a tantrum. Either being taken home from the bakery mid paddy made an impression, or it was the fact that I ballasted them with plenty of porridge (with ground almonds for extra protein) first, which I signally failed to do the day before… Since we had managed to get to the shops, we had chicken Marylands to make Jollof Rice for our African Week of cooking (well, it turned out to be an African Day rather than a week as planned, but it was still yummy). Unfortunately I couldn’t convince K to come and help me cook, but she liked eating it.

Wednesday

We went to Bruny Island with Sandy and Lucy. Everyone enjoyed the ferry, and fortunately I was sufficiently clued in to likely weather conditions to make sure that everybody was rugged up to the eyeballs. We went to the cheesery (nom), climbed up to the Truganini lookout in a, ahem, “brisk” wind that practically froze our noses off, ate lunch at a general store cum cafe which served amazing gourmet pies, and drove down to look at the lighthouse. Unfortunately we hadn’t worked out our times very well and by the time we got to the lighthouse we had just about enough time to say, “Gosh, a lighthouse!” and turn round and drive hell for leather up almost the entire length of the island to get back to our ferry so we didn’t have to wait another hour to get back. But it was a lovely day. H fell asleep in the car on the hell-for-leather chase, slept through the ferry trip, and most of the way home, so was definitely not tired when we got home *sigh* 

Thursday

Housework, mostly. Kids amused themselves, I grumbled at them for not helping. Didn’t go to the PO and library. Didn’t get out of pyjamas all day, in fact *blush* When we were reading The Long Winter in the evening, Laura talks about frost on the windows and frost on the nails in the roof, etc, to I showed K an experiment in the Cold science book about making frost in the freezer. It was too late to do it that night so we put the book out on the bookstand at the right page so we would remember to do it tomorrow.

Friday

More housework. After I got grumpy with them yesterday for not helping, K and H took out the rubbish, collected kindling, and K did some washing up. Better show than the day before… We did the frost experiment in the morning. K liked it so much that when she had seen the frost the first time, and it had melted, she put it back in the freezer again to see if it would do the same thing (it did). They also played with the pattern blocks, and then tidied them away and built towers with the blocks.

Today we actually managed to get out of pyjamas and off to the library. We really need to go through our current pile of loans and read the ones which we haven’t gotten to yet, because K’s card is so full I had to borrow half of them on mine. Oops. But K’s African paper dolls and sticker map arrived in the mail, so she was much more interested in them. She chose one pair of costumes for me to cut out, and they were Maasai ones, so we looked up the Maasai and read a bit about them, found Kenya and Tanzania on the map, and I printed out a Kenyan flag for her to colour-in. We wanted somewhere for the dolls to live where H couldn’t reach them, so we appropriated the top shelf above the seasonal shelf, and propped up some of the African theme books up there too. So now that bookshelf is looking very edumacational: Africa on the top shelf, the seasonal shelf beneath, and winter theme books (some on bookstands) under that. It makes me think how cool it would be to devote the entire bookshelf to our various themes, and maybe a display of art, etc.

After that, K and H both got into colouring-in so I had to print out more pictures for them. K cut one up to make a mobile. She ended up putting all the country maps on her sticker picture and we talked a bit about different countries. Then a few more chapters of Laura and some library books. Mr Bat worked late before going to an SCA social evening to meet some visiting royalty, so I didn’t bother insisting that anybody go to bed until they were tired enough to ask to.

Saturday

Mr Bat took the three smalls off to a tourney at Roseneath Park. With a bit of flailing and cursing, and the last-minute spilling of a bottle of water down his only warm outfit by H which necessitated ironing and tumbling his clothes dry again, I managed to get them outfitted and out the door not too late. B looked utterly gorgeous in her Renaissance garb (from Carina), and I did her hair in a pearl-bordered snood and side-ringlets which miraculously stayed on the whole day (it might have had something to do with the fact that in sewing the pearl border onto the snood while she was wearing it, I also deliberately sewed it onto her hair, heh).

While they were out, I went into Hobart in the other car and went op shopping, then picked them up after the tourney finished. B decided not to go on to the ball with Mr Bat as originally planned, and I took all of them home, leaving around 4ish. H of course went to sleep in the car and thus was up almost until Mr Bat got home at stupid p.m., but again, we all happily did our own thing and the smalls generally went to bed when they got tired enough and it was all quite relaxing, which was just as well. Two nights of solo parenting bedtimes, humph! 😛

Sunday

I pulled out a pile of our loans which need to go back soon and which we haven’t read. K as very interested in Houses in Hot and Cold Places, and altho I didn’t try and read all the text to her, we had a fun time looking at the pictures, reading a few bits of text (usually the least stating-the-blatantly-obvious didactic bits) and discussing some of the concepts. She was putting together the idea of geothermal heat with the DVD we borrowed from the library, Naked Science: Birth of the Earth, which she watched on Friday.

We decided to go out at lunchtime to get fish and chips and return the DVDs to the store, but B’s stomach was playing up yet again so she decided to stay at home. Then we figured that if we were going to Huonville we might as well go all the way to Margate and go to the tip shop and drop off our recycling. But even that didn’t tempt B, especially when we mentioned the windiness of the road to Margate…. Unfortunately the smalls had yet another attack of eviltude in the fish’n’chip shop which caused us to give up in exasperation and haul them out of there. I’m sure there are gentler ways of dealing with a 2yo displaying a sailor’s vocabulary at the top of his lungs and his sister yelling STOP SAYING THE F-WORD in a crowded eating establishment, but yeah, it wasn’t happening this day.

So we hauled off to the DVD store, and then off to Margate, and on the way we worked out (we really are rather slow sometimes) that they hadn’t had much for breakfast except toast, so were probably melting down from lack of protein, yet again. But Mr Bat was set on fish’n’chips, so we had to drive all the way to Kettering to find some. We went into the Mermaid Cafe and then decided that we really shouldn’t subject them to our melting-down children and ended up getting (extremely yummy) fish’n’chips at the Ferry Road takeaway 500m up the road. Since it was raining, we ate it in the car, and it was bloody good. Then we finally made it to the tip shop (which was disappointing, after all that!), and home. It was all a big pain in the bum and a waste of time, especially since it was B’s last full day and we spent most of it without her! Silly woman.

I bought K a new Barbie doll at the tip shop, sans clothes, so when we got her home K started making her clothes. She started out using rags wrapped around and tied with string, then cut holes in them and tied them, then started sewing them on, and eventually ended up trying to cut out shapes and sew them. I gave her a hand with a coat she was making. I discovered that she can thread needles with tiny holes in them on at least half of her attempts, which I find quite boggling at her age!

Monday

Had to leave just after 10 to make sure we got B to the airport on time. We got there early, so ate ridiculously overpriced but not-half-bad airport food and tried to keep the smalls amused. Did not succeed, so was aggravated by them instead of feeling suitably melancholy at my big girl going away. Which was probably a good thing, as she had threatened me with terrible retribution if I cried all over her in the airport and made the cabin staff patronise her (well, she said she’d probably have to thump them for it and then she’d end up in juvenile detention, but anyway. I love her amazing comic timing and delivery, she really rocked that line). We had to stay until the plane was in the air, so it was 1pm before we got out, and after 2pm before we got home, and thus nothing much was ever likely to be accomplished with the day.

I was still feeling a bit fragile in the afternoon, so we read a few books, H played with Duplo and with Flurf the teddy, both kids played outside for a while even though it was freezing, K worked on her dolls’ clothes, and I got on with some housework and put baked potatoes in for dinner since I wanted something easy. Mr Bat came home early since he had worked so late on Friday, but wasn’t really spending time with the kids, buggrit. After dinner K watched the Naked Science: Birth of the Earth DVD again, and H watched Peter Rabbit which we have to take back ASAP since it’s overdue. 20 pages of The Long Winter for K and some library books for H, and then the smalls mostly amused themselves until they were tired enough to ask to be put to bed. I might try waking them up earlier tomorrow, since I don’t like the way that late nights are pushing later wake-ups are pushing later nights *yawn*

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Monday afternoon

Well, that didn’t work. We got to HIP okay, but nobody had had much breakfast (because I was too busy doing the menu plan/shopping list and procrastinating on the puter) and were starting the get a bit fragile at Isabel’s. After we left, we went to the bakery to get lunch, and K and H had full-on, screaming, swearing, fulllength flinging face down on the floor tantrums when I wasn’t giving them the right answer about whether they could have seconds. So I cracked it, walked out and back to the car and went home. I guess that means we’ll have to go out again tomorrow to do the supermarket and op shopping, altho at least that means we could potentially go to Kingston rather than Huonville and put K’s Mary Janes into the shoe repair place there to get glued back together…

At home they wavered between cooperating beautifully – they filled the woodbox by the fire between them – and more meltdowns, screaming and kicking or throwing things at each other. I came so close to snapping with K that I left her with B, stuck H in the car and went to Geeveston to check the mail and buy firelighters (since we had no small dry kindling and no paper which wanted to stay alight long enough to catch the bigger wood). B’s passport had arrived – posted express from Yass on Friday afternoon, which was quite impressive! While we were there, we went to the village lolly shop and bought peace offerings. We got home to find the girls quite peaceful and B making pancakes from the rest of the batter in the fridge (they haven’t starting puking yet so I can assume that it hadn’t gone off since Saturday night).

Now K is watching Inkheart, H is asking me to draw shapes for him to copy over, and B is on her puter (where else).

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Monday morning

  • got up 90mins before small people and started shopping list and menu plan. Decided that this week should be Africa Week so that we can give back the African cookbook. K very impressed and wanted to start cooking Right Now! I also rediscovered the Congo Cookbook, which I knew about ages ago but had forgotten, so we might have a look for any suitable recipes on there too.
  • B on her puter; K and H playing Sesame Street games on K’s.
  • The Plan for today is HIP, supermarket shopping, and hopefully hitting the op shops because B and I want to find some funky jumpers we can cut use to make upcycled wrist warmers.
  • K getting frustrated because her internet stopped working (I still don’t know why) and then her computer froze up and had to be restarted. I read her a couple of pages from Colonial Crafts, which she had obviously been looking through already. H played with the Duplo, building diggers and cranes and towers.
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Friday – Saturday – Sunday

Friday

Mr Bat worked from home, so a lot of the morning was spent repeating “No, Daddy’s NOT HERE, he’s at work, please don’t go in there…” Went to Katy’s around lunchtime for crafty, then home via the real estate agent to put in an offer on the house. Rewarded the kids for their patience spending an hour waiting for us in the car by buying ice creams all round. Home and cooked quiche and salad for the picnic tomorrow.

Saturday

Frantically cleaned the house in the morning. B was very helpful, altho sulking and rebellious when not lavishly thanked for it. K was moderately helpful. It was damp and grey and freezing cold, perfect weather for swimming (crazy people!). Finally we managed to head out the door for our picnic at the Hastings Thermal Pool. Katy was just getting in when we arrived, so the girls went in the pool with her, and K was extremely grumpy at having to get out again when Katy’s smalls had had enough. After I had winkled her out of the pool and dressed her again, we had lunch, then Is and Karl and Ny showed up with their smalls and got in the pools. K EXTREMELY grumpy that I wouldn’t let her get back in with them! Instead, the girls and I walked around the Hot Springs Loop track and saw some of the hot springs bubbling up into pools. Saw a couple of points where the hot water was joining with the cold mountain streams. K saw an eel from one of the discovery platforms. Looked at fungus and marvelled at the general atmosphere of damp and decrepitude.

Sunday

Smalls had a bath to help keep them out of the way while the rest of us frantically cleaned and tidied before landlord arrived. B had meltdowns because her laundry wasn’t done and she had nothing to wear (except for the stuff which she could have worn if it wasn’t unsuitable for this particular occasion, of course). K dictated a report about the trip yesterday, for her portfolio. I did laundry. K and H drew pictures and played in the garden and I attempted to keep enough clothes on H to avert galloping pneumonia.

Then B and I went out just after 1, returned some DVDs in Huonville and borrowed some more (which required me joining up), then headed off to Cygnet for the Spooky Men’s Chorale concert. We paid for our tickets nice and early and went two doors up to the Lotus Eaters cafe and had a late lunch. Finished around 3 and went back to find seats. It was a fabulous show, we loved the support act, Kate Rowe, and adored the Spooky Men. Really fabulous onstage chemistry and silliness. Got home after 6, having stopped off in Huonville again to buy dinner.

Mr Bat was beating his head against his irritating project, so I read The Long Winter to K and B tried to keep H amused with library books. Eventually I gave up and put H to bed in my room. Mr Bat came out and put K to bed too. An hour or two later and I am trying to convince Elder Daughter of Ditziness to Go. To. Bed. as she is exhausted and increasingly run down, but what do I know?

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The rest of Thursday

  • I sent the kids into the library with B to supervise and ducked in to the post office to pick up our parcels and post Mum’s letter.
  • At the library, B read books to H and I read books to K, and to another little girl about the same age, Keira, who came over and started listening to me. K and Keira had a bit of a chance to talk to each other before Keira had to go, so maybe we’ll see her around in the future.
  • I borrowed all K’s holds which had arrived (ghods I lurve interlibrary loan!), and had to borrow half the books I’d picked out on my card because K’s was full, and then found that my card was full too! I think we need to work our way through some of the older ones we have and then take them back.
  • K’s longstitch kit arrived, so when we got home I put it on the embroidery frame for her and she started working on it. She got the hang of it pretty quickly and persevered with it on and off until bedtime. She’s pretty accurate, given her age! She told me that when it is finished she wants to send it to Nannie as a late birthday present 🙂
  • K had quite a large hiatus from sewing when she watched another movie. I went into the study and read half the library books to H, then he asked for the Goodies (and didn’t watch it).
  • I read another 30 pages of By the Shores of Silver Lake to K, who did some sewing while I read, and then Mr Bat (who had been reading library books to the Boy) sang them both songs until H was pacified unto sleep and K was happy enough to go to bed by herself.
  • After I was sure she was asleep, I enticed B away from her computer to spend an hour and a half beading. We looked through the jewellery-making book I borrowed from the library, and I made the clasp I liked, and she decided to just make some basic earrings. Eventually she branched out a little into some wire twisting, and made a few spirals. Must do this some more, it was lovely to spend the time with my girl 🙂
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Thursday so far.

  • made a huge pot of porridge with ground almonds, butter and maple syrup for the smalls, in the hope that it would head off blood sugar issues like yesterday’s
  • helped B set up her Fakebook page
  • helped K dress up like Lucy from Narnia, with long fake plait and all, so that she could play Narnia watch Mary Poppins *sigh*
  • H pottered around and played with Duplo and generally demanding somebody’s attention
  • hung out a load of washing, put in a new load of washing, finished the washing up 
  • B read to H and watched music videos with him; K watched Mary Poppins
  • kicked B and K outside to play in the sunny garden; failed to convince K to stop watching Mary Poppins and join them. Made pumpkin soup for lunch, did the rest of the washing up and made the kitchen relatively presentable.
  • K went out to play in the garden; B on her puter; H playing with cars and car mat; I did more laundry and collected library books and picked stuff up off the floor in the living room’
  • H and B cleared the table then we all had a sit-down lunch for a change. K asked me to give her a scavenger hunt, so I did, then I put away washing up, washed up and wiped down the table and counter. H played with Duplo, B on her puter.
  • B read library books while I showered and dressed, then I dressed H in clothes that were not covered in soup, and we headed off to the library.
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Wednesday

Today mostly involved laundry, the consumption of birthday chocolate (occasionally by people other than B, which was sweet of her), laundry, tissue paper, laundry, and washing up. Later, it involved going out to dinner. Nom.

Things made out of tissue paper included a mobile with pink and purple butterflies, new snowflakes, and a horrible mess.

There may also have been books read, cuddles cuddled, gardens played in, photos processed (the EDoD is teaching herself to use GIMP and uploading her arty creations) and meltdowns melted. But over all, it was a good day.

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